Laceweb
- Trauma Healing Program
Workshops Manual
Energising possibilities
for evolving trauma healers
and voluntary self help trauma healing networks
among Indigenous and Disadvantaged Minorities
in the SE Asia Oceania Australasia Region
Written June 1995. Updated
April 2014.
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The
wisdom in this page has been drawn from the grassroots people of the East
Asia Oceania Australasia Region. Consistent with their way, this wisdom is
freely available on the Laceweb Internet site. Now a simple secure process
has been set up, so people reading and downloading this wisdom may contribute
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SE Asia, Oceania, Australasia Trauma Context
Many tens of thousands of
indigenous and small minority people suffer the continuing trauma of torture
and trauma inflicted during conflicts and man-made disasters in the region.
East Timor and Bougainville are two examples of traumatised populations.
This program has the
substantial aim of energising healing processes that may lead to the healing
of this massive and continuing human tragedy. The program is based upon
tapping the voluntary energy of local nurturers and healers, most of whom are
also traumatised, and enabling them to expand their healing repertoire in
culturally appropriate ways.
The sheer size of the
problem and a yearning to use local way has lead to this Program being
centred on using/evolving informal networks of local self help healers.
Cultural Appropriateness:
This Workshop series has
been expressly prepared to embody the following features.
Enabling:
- culturally appropriate
workshops
- actual trauma healing during
workshops
- the passing on of healing ways
- locals to culturally adapt
healing ways
- voluntary self help networks
within and between communities
- therapeutic community during
the workshop series and beyond
Laceweb background
The Laceweb is an
informal healing network of indigenous, small minority and intercultural
people evolving in the Oceania, SE Asia, Australasia region for over 30 years.
The Laceweb pioneered therapeutic community in the region over forty years
ago (refer the Internet ).
Acknowledgement
This Laceweb document and
Laceweb facilitator(s) draw upon streams of wisdom of indigenous and small
minority people in the region passed along Laceweb networks.
Sequencing
The workshop sequencing
typically 'unfolds' in an open agenda that is evolved by the local people to
best meet their needs. For example, in some contexts, people are fully aware
of their issues and needs and desire to move directly into experiencing some
of the healing ways in workshops six and seven.
Proviso
The approaches outlined
in this Workshop series, when applied by qualified, skilled, experienced
enablers are extremely powerful. However, if these processes are attempted to
be facilitated by unqualified, unskilled and inexperienced facilitators, not
only could they be completely ineffectual, they could result in people being
disillusioned. Skilled local facilitators may be evolved during workshop
facilitation by Laceweb enablers.
Time:
The program appears as 14
experiential modules (workshops). While written as a seven day program, the
timing of the program delivery is very flexible and may be changed to fit
local contexts. Some groups may want to extend the time and vary the
sequencing. For example workshops may be extended to 10 and 14 day sharing
gatherings.
Pre-requisites to being a
Participant:
People:
- who are natural nurturers and
typically 'wounded healers', and
- are of any age and sex, and
- who are, or have been, and are
likely to be, involved in self-healing of self and others,
- and do this healing naturally
in their social lifeworld, and
- are sought out by others to
give nurturing support.
Aim:
This Workshop series is
focusing on an extremely sensitive area where the aim is healing in the very
process of passing on healing ways. It involves co-learning between
participants, and between participants and facilitator(s), in workshops
enabled by facilitators.
The workshop series
meta-aim is 'meeting the healing needs and wants of local people'. While a
wide range of potential content has been built into the program, workshops
unfold in open agenda so that local people may take from it and adapt it
according to local need, rather than facilitators imposing their specific
agenda.
What will happen is that
local people may use and adapt some or all aspects of the Workshop series and
may explore and adapt the healing ways they want, at their pace.
The Laceweb has more than
a 30 year record of passing on these healing ways. The healing and
psycho-social processes being explored are powerful. Given this, the aims of
the series and each Workshop are expressed in tentative terms to recognise
that nothing will happen unless local people want it to happen.
Aim - By the end of the
Workshop series, participants may be able to:
- use trauma healing ways on self
and others
- develop and share culturally
appropriate healing ways relating to torture and trauma healing, and
- support survivors of torture
and trauma by evolving and sustaining self help healing networks and
therapeutic communities
WORKSHOPS LIST
The
Aim may be achieved by participants attending the following 14 workshops:
Establishing
Ambience and Contexts
1. Opening Ceremony and
Storytelling
2. Introduction to
Torture and Trauma Healing and Support
3. Issues in Supporting
Survivors of Torture and Trauma
4. Application/Reflection
as Healers/Survivors of Torture and Trauma During the Crisis
Receiving the Core of the
Healing Ways
5. Healing Processes
6. Experiencing Sharing
and Receiving Healing Ways
7. Experiencing, Sharing,
Receiving and Adapting Healing Ways
Applying these Ways for
Healing Specific Issues
8. Using Healing Ways to
Resolve Specific Issues
9. Specific Application
of Micro-skills to Women's Issues
10. Specific Application
of Micro-skills to Children and Adolescents
11. Getting a Good
Night's Sleep
Resolving Issues and
Consolidating Possibilities for Action
12. Open Agenda Workshop
Addressing Outstanding Issues
13. Issues for
Facilitators and Enablers in Evolving Healing Networks
14. Evolving Healing and
Support for Torture and Trauma Survivors - Summarising, Review and Action
Context:
This Workshop series
draws upon the healing power of therapeutic community. Ideally, the series is
experienced in campout sharing gatherings where facilitators and participants
jointly enable the constituting of therapeutic community while living closely
together for a short time.
Program Adaptability:
In the future,
participants who have already experienced the program may repeat the program
one or more times and experience a new set of healing ways each time. Such
repeat participants may be included along- side participants who are
'first-timers'.
Number of Participants:
Laceweb facilitators are
experienced in working with both small groups as well as large groups (up to
200). It is envisioned that early workshops series may be small (may 10 or
even up to 30) with 2 - 3 facilitators.
It is possible that in
some healing sharing gatherings in the future it may well be that there may
be many hundreds attending with concurrent workshops on offer.
Workshop 1 Opening
Ceremony and Storytelling
Objective:
By
the end of the Workshop, participants may have established comfort and
rapport with the facilitators and each other, and may have resonance with the
roles of:
- trauma and torture
healer and supporter, and
- enabler/evolver of
self help healing networks and therapeutic community.
Time:
Half
day or longer
Process
A
ceremony culturally appropriate for supporting local people and introducing
the healing ambience of Torture and Trauma Healing.
Storytelling
of healing and nurturing in big and small groups - Healing and Support for
Torture and Trauma Survivors.
Activities:
Any
matters that any participant wants revisited are posted on butcher paper.
Handouts:
Simple
dot-point/diagram/picture handouts in respect of each theme from material
generated throughout the group sharing and from prior Workshop series.
Back to Workshop List
Workshop 2 Introduction
to Torture and Trauma Healing and Support
Objective
By
the end of the Workshop, participants may have:
- further established
comfort and rapport with the facilitators and each other,
- further resonance
with the roles of 'trauma and torture healer and supporter', and
'enabler/evolver of self help healing networks and therapeutic
community', and
- a clearer
understanding of some of the local healing issues.
Time:
Half
day or longer
Materials:
Materials
from prior workshop
Activities:
Facilitators
introduce a series of structured experiences and sharings; themes:
- Establishing rapport
- Gaining acceptance
of the healing support role
- Identifying specific
issues to be resolved, including:
- 'Being safe' and
'exploitation of sexual identity'
- Resolving anger and
violent behaviour
- Resolving the
effects of psycho-social, physical and sexual abuse - feeling safe
again
- Healing grief,
shame and loss
- Letting go 'war
zone' mentality - feeling safe again
- Identifying and
using existing:
- culturally
appropriate healing ways
- psycho-social
resources
- individual, family
and community healing processes
- Healing play, games,
fantasy and fun
- Enabling well-being
resources
- Empowering
well-being
- Enabling the
building of therapeutic community; developing resources; forming support
coalitions and fostering self help support networks and friendship
Additional
activities:
Any
matters that any participant wants revisited are posted on butcher paper.
Handouts:
Simple
dot-point/diagram/picture handouts in respect of each theme from material
generated throughout the group sharing and from prior Workshop series.
Additional
resources:
The
following Videos may be used as appropriate to context:
- Eye of the Needle - Torture - a
global phenomena
- My father's Daughter
- The story of Mai - Personal experience
- The Two Deaths of
Raul Pacheco
- Latin American family experience
- The Survivor - The
Story of Zalmai
- Middle East experience
Back to Workshop List
Workshop 3. Issues in
Supporting Survivors of Torture and Trauma
Objective:
By
the end of the Workshop, participants may be able to identify and explore the
specific issues and needs for healing and supporting Bougainville survivors
of torture and trauma and explore frameworks for resolving the issues and
satisfying the needs.
Time:
Half
day or longer
Materials:
Materials
from prior workshops.
Activities:
Materials
from prior workshops are used to expand on trauma healing issues:
- issues in setting up
culturally appropriate support for torture and trauma survivors;
- models of evolving
culturally appropriate self help healing networks among torture and
trauma survivors;
- combining community
development and self help healing approaches;
- supporting refugee
and displaced communities;
- strategies for
developing self help healing networks among torture and trauma
survivors.
Workshop
facilitator(s) and all attendees are supported to share examples of the above
issues in small groups and big group. Healing contexts may emerge using:
- brainstorming
- consensual
explorings
- small group
discussion
- making large murals,
maps, drawings and other representations
- other cultural
expressions – e.g. story, song and dance
as
a means of expressing concerns and options with extensive use of flip charts
and output placed where all can see.
Any
matters that any participant wants revisited are posted on butcher paper.
Handouts:
Simple
dot-point/diagram/picture handouts in respect of each theme from material
generated throughout the group sharing and from prior Workshop series and
from prior Workshop series.
Back to Workshop List
Workshop 4.
Application/Reflection as Healers/Survivors of Torture and Trauma During the
Crisis
Objective:
By
the end of the Workshop, participants may be able:
- to understand matters
relating to being a torture/trauma healer and supporter
- to set up contexts
for interchange of culturally appropriate understandings about ways of
enabling healing and support
- have explored the
effects of torture and trauma upon families, females, children,
adolescents, males and combatants as entry points for providing healing,
nurturing, support, care and understanding.
Time
Half
day or longer
Material:
Murals,
flip charts, drawings, diagrams and other handouts from prior Workshops.
Sequence
of Activities:
Workshop
facilitator(s) and all attendees contributing in sharing discussion and
examples, and by experiencing healing ways, exploring the following themes:
- Enabling the gifts
of intercultural healing
- The loving nurturer
- Understanding the
effects of exposure to torture and trauma in the context of civil strife
and the refugee experience
- Effects on the
children and adolescents
- Effects on the women
- Effects on the
family
- Effects on the men
- Effects on the
children, family and friends of torture and trauma sufferers
- Effects on the
combatants
- Rehabilitating,
healing and reconciling of torture and trauma survivors in the local,
national and global context
Additional
activities:
Key
aspects are posted on butcher paper and murals; posted material used as a
resource for generating handouts.
Any
matters that any participant wants revisited are posted on butcher paper.
Handouts:
Simple
dot-point/diagram/picture handouts in respect of each theme from material
generated throughout the group sharing and from prior Workshop series and
from prior Workshop series.
Back to Workshop List
Workshop 5. Healing
Processes
Objective:
By
the end of the Workshop, participants may able be to identify and understand:
- some universal as
well as culturally specific healing processes,
- principles as guides
to action, as well as models and contexts for entering into a healing
relationship
- some ways of
resolving issues relating to enabling healing
Time:
Half
day or longer
Materials:
All
materials used and generated in previous workshops.
Activities:
The
following themes may be discussed, explored and models demonstrated by the
facilitator(s) and participants engaging in discussions and structured
experiences in small and big groups.
This
may be a practical experiential Workshop where participants may experience
different models of healing. Participants may experience using healing ways
on self and others under the guidance of the facilitator(s)and share feedback
with each other and the facilitator(s) on their outcomes.
Themes
explored may be:
- Principals of
Healing
- Healing Models
- Gain and loss in the
context of safety and danger
- Models of
intervening - interrupting dysfunction
- Mediation Therapy
and Mediation Counselling
- Individual care
support and nurturing
- Group Approaches
- Community therapy
- Family Community
Therapy
- Crisis intervening
and debriefing
- Evolving
local-lateral healing networks
- Healing communities
in the context of community development
Further
Themes:
- Transferring and
Projecting: Clearing misunderstanding transferred from the past, and
projected on to the other side.
- Anti-burnout
strategies, debriefing and self-healing
- Enabling and
supporting healers, nurturers and carers who are supporting survivors of
torture/trauma
- Enabling ethics law
- the law of sisterly/brotherly love, expressing the caring Integrity of
communities - homo sapiens amans
Additional
activities
- Brief descriptions
of healing processes and other matters may be posted on butcher paper
and used to generate session hand-outs.
- Any matters that any
participant wants revisited are posted on butcher paper
Handouts:
Simple
dot-point/diagram/picture handouts from material generated throughout the
group sharing and from prior Workshop series.
Back to Workshop List
Workshop 6. Experiencing,
Sharing and Receiving Healing Ways
Objective:
By
the end of the Workshop, participants may be able to provide a rich context
with possibilities for exploring, understanding and acquiring healing ways
and processes, as well as understanding when to use them in appropriate
contexts.
Time:
Half
day or longer
Note:
Typically
this Workshop (6) and the following Workshop (7) may involve more than half a
day. They are central for the sharing of healing ways. They may involve
follow-up sessions among the participants with or without the facilitator(s),
as participants further refine their healing ways. Workshop's 6 and 7 may
provide a process-model for local sharing healing celebratory gatherings.
Materials:
All
materials used and generated in prior Workshops.
Activities:
This
particular session involves all participants in experiencing using healing
ways.
Facilitator(s)
introduce micro-experiences, and participants may experience using these
micro-experiences on themselves and each other. The group may work
individually, in pairs (with and without a third person in the observer role)
as well as in small groups. Periodically participants will give and receive
feedback and share discussion.
There
are a rich source of healing ways associated with the following material -
far more than may be explored in one, or even two or three Workshops.
Facilitator(s) may briefly share the healing ways with participants.
Participants may select what they want from all the ways available.
The
micro-experiences
- Rapport Building - being at one,
moving together. A wide range of verbal and non-verbal rapport building
processes may be explored.
- Gathering
information, monitoring and precision questioning - Using simple
language models and other forms of expression that may enable helpers to
gently and caringly assist others to express themselves.
- Accurate clues
reading:
survivors/disputants and their body language. May enable helpers to
notice discrepancies between verbal and non-verbal behaviors as well as
other unspoken indicators as an aid to resolving issues.
- Language meta-model. Big and small
chunks, May enable helpers to use simple, graceful, caring and healing
language to foster healing.
- Assessing internal
states
- strategic and sorting patterns, and external relationships. May enable
helpers to identify and use the unique aspects of how a person behaves
and experiences life and makes internal representations of this
experience - for enabling possibilities for healing.
- Well-formed outcomes in healing,
mediation therapy and problem solving. May enable helpers to maintain a
nurturing outcomes focus.
- Anchoring - Few or one-trial
re/learning. This is an easy to learn process that may have wide
applicability in healing. It may enable people to expand flexibility and
choice in their emotions, internal experience and personal
resourcefulness towards well-being.
- Creative vagueness. This healing
micro-experience process may enable the other person to bypass aspects
of self that may hold back healing.
- Reframing/deframing - finding
constructive meanings, resolving internal and external conflicts, seeing
trouble in a better light. We all make our own representations of our experience,
sometimes in ways that may prolong pain and suffering. 'Deframing' may
free up fixed ways of experiencing the world. 'Reframing' may allow
survivors to place past and present experience within more helpful and
healing frameworks.
- Sensory submodalities - change patterns.
We all use our various senses in special ways to make sense of our
lives. An extensive set of very simple processes may be explored that
may allow people to make profound and lasting changes in their lives and
how they respond to past events.
- Dissociation - separating
memories from bad or violent feelings. Simple processes may be
introduced that may allow people to break the previous inevitable link
between recall of trauma and the re-experiencing of the associated pain.
These healing micro-experiences may reintroduce flexibility and choice
into lives; they may prepare participants for a possible subsequent
micro-experience set relating to emotional choice.
- Accessing and
re-accessing psycho-social resource states. We all have a
differing set of psycho-social resources states such as joy, calmness,
tranquillity, engrossment and energy. Often people may have a range of
resource states that they may have not linked into for many years. A set
of micro-experiences may be explored that may enable others to tap into
their resource states, enhance them, and to build new ones.
- Creating healing
futures.
People vary in the way they use their senses to make representations of
possible futures. Some people may have no processes for making
representations of the future. It may be that they literally can't see a
future for themselves. Others may only see bleak futures.
Micro-experiences may be explored that may allow people to build
internal representations of healing futures that may sustain and enrich.
- Changing personal
history,
re-imprinting, creating hopeful futures; evolving well-being
perspectives on previous painful or angry attitudes. People make
representations or 'maps' of their experience and use their senses in
specific ways to 'file' experience. Experience has demonstrated that
helping people explore and change how they use their brain and senses
may have profound healing value.
- Altering emotional
states.
A set of processes may be explored that may allow people to readily
enter and leave any emotional state at will, towards having emotional
flexibility and choice.
- Altering energy
states.
People often have profoundly 'shut down', 'constricted' or 'dispersed -
scattered' energy patterns that limit wellbeing. A set of processes
allowing people to readily enter and leave any energy state at will.
- Accessing states and chaining -
resourceful habits and good moods; dramatic pattern-interrupt. Life
scenes. This is a set of micro-experiences that may allow some of the
micro-experiences to be used together to obtain healing outcomes.
- Mediating Metaphor - storytelling,
performance and image writing as parables for healthy tolerance and
cooperative living. Throughout time, stories and other forms of metaphor
have been used for promoting healing change. A set of specific
micro-experiences may be explored for creating simple, though powerful,
healing metaphors.
- Caring and sharing - home, street and
rural mediation therapy/counselling. An extensive set of
micro-experiences and processes may be explored that foster relationship
building and healing happening between people in conflict, within a
mediation therapy frame.
- Conversational
change.
This set of micro-experiences may allow healing action to take place 'on
the run' as it were, as one goes about relating with other people in day
to day contexts.
- Context healing,
street mediation and group story performance. Draws on
indigenous healing process, corroboree, therapeutic communities, dance
movement and Keyline organic farming concepts and processes. Uses
natural and evolving contexts as healing possibilities. Embraces
mediation therapy/counselling for strengthening healing, relationship
and community.
- Ebb and flow - Processes drawing
from nature allowing people sensitivity as to when to gently introducing
healing possibilities and when to senitively withdraw.
- Mapping Across - freeing up
limiting beliefs and attitudes. A set of processes and micro-experiences
may be explored that may allow people to free up limiting beliefs and
attitudes towards more flexibility and choice.
- Increasing
flexibility and choice relating to use of bad or rigid habits. Releasing
over-dependence and blocked emotion. These are a set of
micro-experiences and processes that may be simple to use and profound
in effect. They involve using language and sensory experience in
specific ways that may loosen up recurrent unpleasant body sensations
such as chest and throat constriction, churning stomachs as well as
possibly stop compulsive, obsessive and phobic behaviors.
- Self-Mediating micro-experiences
for criticism and argument. The friendly voice. This set of
micro-experiences and processes again uses shifts in the particular way
people use words and their senses to make sense of the world.
- Healing Movement and
Somatic Processes. Many body approaches to change are available
that involve becoming aware of how we move and tense our bodies. Healing
Movement process involves very simple movement with awareness of the
movement. These simple processes may allow possibilities for graceful
and elegant movement towards sustainable well-being.
- Outdoor Action play. Individual and
group experiences, processes, initiatives and rituals for possibilities
that may build trust in self and others, and possibly build
co-operation, community enrichment, self resourcefulness, self reliance,
group support and which may improve dispute solving.
- Intercultural and
inter-ethnic consensus; respect for cultural diversity, negotiation of
meaning, joint authority, the principles of humanitarian (caring) law.
Processes and micro-experiences for establishing possibilities for
healing relating between differing cultures and ethnic groupings.
- Developing ethnic
and cultural self esteem - resolving shame and guilt. Many of the above
micro-experiences may be used in possibly resolving these issues.
- The Australian
Blis-symbols system; the blissful picture writing view - re-viewing
and imaging. Uses processes adapted from Aboriginal bark and sand
painting and drawing, iconic images, healing artistry and the Australian
Blis-symbols system.
- Cultural healing
Action.
Processes drawing on influences from Vanuatu and other Pacific Island
peoples. People may be involved in drama, music, creative writing,
dance, visual arts, theatre and group dynamics as a way of healing and a
way of resolving matters. Cultural healing action may provide corrective
remedial and generative emotional micro-experiences that may lead to
personal and group issues actually being healed/resolved during the
process of exploring them.
- Mood that attunes. Processes for
setting up individual, group and community moods resonant with
therapeutic community and healing wellbeing.
Additional
Activities:
- Brief descriptions
of healing processes may be posted on butcher paper and used to generate
session hand-outs.
- Any issues or topics
that participants want revisited or discussed are posted on butcher
paper
Handouts
Simple
dot-point/diagram/picture handouts from material generated throughout the
group sharing and from prior Workshop series.
Back to Workshop List
Workshop 7. Experiencing,
Sharing, Receiving and Adapting Healing Ways
Objective:
By
the end of the workshop, participants may have furthered their experience of
using the healing ways on themselves and others, and may have culturally
adapted the healing ways to address specific local issues in supporting
survivors of torture and trauma.
Time:
Half
day or longer.
Note:
Typically
this Workshop (7) and the previous Workshop may involve more than half a day.
They are central for the sharing of healing ways. They may involve follow-up
sessions among the participants with or without the facilitator(s), as participants
further refine their healing ways. Workshop's 6 and 7 may provide a
process-model for local sharing healing celebratory gatherings
Materials:
All
materials used and generated in previous workshops.
Activities:
- Facilitator(s)
introduce further micro-experiences, and participants experience using
these micro-experiences on themselves and each other. The group works
individually, in pairs (with and without a third person in the observer
role) as well as in small groups.
- Participants
culturally adapt healing ways and use them to address specific local
issues.
- Periodically,
participants give and receive feedback and share discussion in small
groups, larger groups and with all participants.
- Brief outlines of
healing ways and outcomes may be posted on butcher paper and murals.
This material may be used to generate handouts for all participants.
- Any matters that any
participant wants revisited are posted on butcher paper.
Processes:
Activity
and process in large and small groups:
- modelling and
experiencing somatic responses
- modelling
micro-experiences
- personal behaviour
and sensory experience of change work
- experiential
real-play in dyads, triads and small groups
- mentoring
- mentor feedback
- having participants
in process-observing roles
- personal and
observer feedback
- large and small
group processes as appropriate to the unfolding context, including
brainstorming and large and small group (i) discussion and (ii) being
audience to other's change-work
- structured and
unstructured experience with process observers
- nanotherapy - where
meticulous attention is given to micro detail and aspects
- working with
participants prone to anger and violence, and other dysfunction
- micro case studies
from the local context
- providing feedback
to plenary session
- consensual
explorings and evaluation of outcomes
- jointly making large
murals for various purposes
- maps and drawings
and other cultural representations as a means of expressing concerns,
options, actions and outcomes
- extensive use of
flip charts, and output placed on walls for all to see
Handouts:
Simple
dot-point/diagram/picture handouts from material generated throughout the
group sharing and from prior Workshop series.
Back to Workshop List
Workshop 8. Using Healing
Ways to Resolve Specific Issues
Objective
By
the end of the workshop participants may be becoming experienced in using a
number of healing ways in resolving specific issues:
- Interrupting,
stopping and preventing fear, anger, payback, aggression and violence in
self and others
- Working through
grief for adults, adolescents and children
- Resolving the
effects of psycho-social, physical and sexual abuse
Time:
Half
day or longer.
Materials:
Materials
used and generated in preceding workshops.
Activities:
A
continuation from Workshop 7 - focusing on applying healing ways in resolving
specific issues. Themes:
- The roots of
violence - the psycho-physiology of anger, fear and violence
- Exploring issues and
processes for interrupting and stopping anger and violence and resolving
the issues that flow from them
- Using healing
mediation therapy to resolve anger, fear, payback and other violence
- Body approaches in
resolving anger
- Resolving anger and
violent behaviour in and within families, groups and communities
- Healing the
suffering from torture and trauma
- Working through
grief for adults, adolescents and children
- Resolving the
effects of psycho-social, physical and sexual abuse in children,
adolescents and adults, - feeling safe again
- Artistic expression
for diagnosis and healing
- Cultural healing
artistry
- Sensory
submodalities - change patterns
- Re/empowering
identity; Re/creating hope
Healing
blocked Love through Forgiveness of Self and Others:
Draws
on healing ways from Workshop Seven to unblock Love and have Love's bounty
enriching every aspect of holistic wellbeing
- Building functional
beliefs about forgiveness
- Exploring
unconditional Love
- Exploring
consequences of blocked Love
- Understanding the
nature of the forgiveness process
- Values - weighing up
our deep and superficial values
- Benefits of doing it
versus not doing it
- Choice - our willing
to realise the goal to forgive
- Acknowledging and
validating our painful feelings and deciding to heal them and moving on
- Discovering all the
negative beliefs that formed at times of pain and recognising how they
produce negative results now
- Creating our
preferences - actions restoring wellbeing
- Discovering the
values underlying our preferences - clarifying, reframing and
strengthening values leading to more self respect and dignity
- Accepting past
history - choosing to respond differently now
- Forgiveness -
cancellation of our demand that our conditions be fulfilled before love
is allowed to flow (an act of will which may open up more our connecting
with holistic wellbeing)
- Self healing
meditating - bring loving life energy through all parts of our mindbody
- our personality, our body, our emotions and memories, our mind and
belief systems, our spirituality
- Healing the patterns
of relationship - carer - flowing love to the other - as a baby....as a
child....as a teenager....as an adult.....up to the present...and
beyond. Restoring goodwill and unconditional love.
- Changing patterns at
sensory submodality levels
- Grounding the 'I
will do to.....' statement
- The goodwill
patterns reminder
- Future pacing -
creating futures - loving behaviour in thought, action and experience
- Checking ecology -
is it complete?
- Maintaining - 'I
will to....' sets the pattern for Love
- The future me and us
Processes:
As
for Workshop 7
Additional
Activities:
- Brief outlines of
healing ways and outcomes may be posted on butcher paper and murals.
This material may be used to generate handouts for all participants.
- Any matters that any
participant wants revisited are posted on butcher paper.
Handouts:
Simple
dot-point/diagram/picture handouts from material generated throughout the
group sharing and from prior Workshop series.
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Workshop 9. Specific
Application of Micro-skills to Women's Issues
Objective:
By
the end of the workshop participants may be becoming experienced in using a
number of healing ways in resolving issues especially relevant for women,
young women and girls.
Time:
Half
day or longer.
Materials:
Materials
used and generated in preceding workshops.
Activities:
This
workshop focuses on using healing ways to address issues specific to women,
young women and girls - themes:
- supporting women in
identifying specific issues to be resolved, including being safe and
exploitation of sexual identity
- establishing rapport
- gaining acceptance
of the healing and support role
- using healing
micro-experiences
- resolving the
effects of psycho-social, physical and sexual abuse - feeling safe again
- identifying and
using a female's existing psycho-social resources
- empowering
well-being
- enabling building
women's community; developing resources; forming coalitions and
fostering support networks and friendships.
Processes:
As
for Workshop 7.
Additional
activities:
- Brief outlines of
healing ways and outcomes may be posted on butcher paper and murals.
This material may be used to generate handouts for all participants.
- Any matters that any
participant wants revisited are posted on butcher paper.
Handouts:
Simple
dot-point/diagram/picture handouts from material generated throughout the
group sharing and from prior Workshop series.
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Workshop 10. Specific
Application of Micro-skills to Children and Adolescents
Objective:
By
the end of the workshop participants may be becoming experienced in using a
number of healing ways in resolving issues especially relevant for children
and adolescents, and families containing children and adolescents.
Time:
Half
day or longer.
Materials:
Materials
used and generated in preceding workshops.
Activities:
In
this workshop, the participants explore ways to resolve and heal childhood
trauma and associated issues. Examples:
- the relative
powerlessness of childhood
- potential
fragmentation of already fragile value and normative frameworks
- profound confusion,
meaninglessness, normlessness and anomie
- physical, emotional
and psycho-social pain resulting from episodes of harm
- the possible and
actual dislocation from loved ones
- the inability to
control or understand any of the decisions being made, or events
unfolding
- dysfunctional
beliefs, e.g., children may believe that they must have done something
really bad to deserve such punishment
- dysfunctional
behaviours - engaging in acting-out behaviours
Themes:
- Identifying specific
issues to be resolved
- Establishing rapport
with the child and significant others
- Gaining acceptance
of the healing support role from the child and significant others
- Identifying specific
issues to be resolved
- Resolving anger and
violent behaviour in children
- Resolving the
effects of psycho-social, physical and sexual abuse - feeling safe again
- Identifying and
using the child's existing psycho-social resources
- Healing grief, shame
and loss
- Letting go 'war
zone' mentality - feeling safe again
- Using individual,
family and community healing processes
- Healing play, games,
fantasy and fun
- Enabling well-being
resources
- Establishing and
clarifying purpose, values and meaning
- Empowering
well-being
Additional
activities:
- Brief summaries of
healing ways may be posted on butcher paper and murals and this content
used to generate handouts.
- Any matters that any
participant wants revisited are posted on butcher paper.
Handouts:
Simple
dot-point/diagram/picture handouts from material generated throughout the
group sharing and from prior Workshop series.
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Workshop 11. Getting a
Good Night's Sleep
Objective:
By
the end of the Workshop, participants may be able to understand and explore
the range of sleep disorders and related issues of torture and trauma
survivors; exploring, experiencing and using an extensive range of processes
and skills to resolve these issues.
Time:
Half
day or longer.
Materials:
Materials
used and generated in preceding workshops.
Activities:
Facilitator(s)
to explore each of the following themes and introduce healing ways to the
participants:
- Difficulty in
getting to sleep
- Nightmares
- Night panic attacks
- Fear of the dark
- Frequent need to
urinate
- Bedwetting
- Disturbed sleep
- Racing thoughts
- Massive body tension
- Waking early in the
morning
- Continual sleeping
- Tired, exhausted but
wide awake
- Breathing
difficulties interrupting sleeping
A
set of micro-experiences/processes for resolving the above issues.
Processes:
As
per Workshop 7
Additional
activities:
- Any matters that any
participant wants revisited are posted on butcher paper.
- Brief summaries of
healing ways may be posted on butcher paper and murals and this content
used to generate handouts.
Handouts:
Simple
dot-point/diagram/picture handouts from material generated throughout the
group sharing and from prior Workshop series.
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Workshop 12. Open Agenda
Workshop Addressing Outstanding Issues
Objective:
To
address outstanding issues from the preceding Workshops.
Time:
Half
day or longer.
Materials:
All
materials used and generated in the preceding workshops may be used for this
workshop. The participants may explore any of the issues or topics that they
want to revisit or discuss including those which have been posted on butcher
paper during previous workshops.
Activities:
Participants
have the opportunity to:
- share,
- comment on ,
- demonstrate,
- seek clarification
on,
- try out,
- brainstorm,
- experience,
- plan, and
- explore
anything
that has emerged during the previous Workshops and intervening periods.
Additional
activities:
- Any matters that any
participant wants revisited are posted on butcher paper.
- Brief summaries of
healing ways may be posted on butcher paper and murals and this content
used to generate handouts.
Handouts:
Simple
dot-point/diagram/picture handouts from material generated throughout the
group sharing and from prior Workshop series.
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Workshop 13. Issues for
Facilitators and Enablers in Evolving Healing Networks
Objective:
By
the end of the Workshop, participants may be able to identify and explore the
specific issues and needs for, and may have commenced action on evolving and
sustaining healing networks supporting survivors of torture and trauma on
Bougainville.
Time:
Half
day or longer.
Materials:
- Butcher paper to
list what needs to be done and who is taking action for certain projects
- Materials used and
generated in preceding workshops may also be used.
Activities:
- Facilitator(s) or one
or more participants within small groups may lead discussion on the
following themes:
- issues in setting up
culturally appropriate support for torture and trauma survivors; models
of evolving culturally appropriate self help healing networks among torture
and trauma survivors;
- combining community
development and self help healing approaches;
- supporting refugee
and displaced communities;
- strategies for
developing healing networks among torture and trauma survivors.
Processes:
- Workshop separate
out into small groups
- Brainstorming
- Reframing
nominalisations into process form
- Identifying and
reframing constraints identifying decision variables
- Allocate a topic to
each group with butcher paper so they may write up discussion points
- Each group reports
back to the big group
- Participants explore
comments by each group
- Evolving Action
plans
Additional
activities:
- Any matters that any
participant wants revisited are posted on butcher paper.
- Brief summaries of
healing ways may be posted on butcher paper and murals and this content
used to generate handouts.
Handouts
Simple
dot-point/diagram/picture handouts from material generated throughout the
group sharing and from prior Workshop series.
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Workshop 14. Evolving
Healing and Support for Torture and Trauma Survivors - Summarising, Review
and Action
Objective:
By
the end of the Workshop, the participants (i) may be able to assist in
evolving culturally appropriate self help healing networks, (ii) may be able
to use a range of healing ways in supporting survivors of torture and trauma
and (iii) may have taken the first steps in evolving and sustaining self help
healing networks.
Materials:
All
materials used and generated during preceding workshops.
Time:
Half
day or longer.
Activities:
- Facilitator(s) and
or participants may briefly summarise each Workshop.
- Participants may
demonstrate healing ways:
- interrupting anger
and violence
- reintegrating
combatants
- women and young
female issues
- family issues
Participants
may engage in action planning of next steps in evolving self help healing
networks:
- brainstorming:
- names of natural
nurturers
- local healing ways
- culturally
appropriate processes in evolving self help healing networks
- specific high
priority issues requiring immediate action
- arranging small
local celebratory sharing gatherings to continue the co-learnings
- making commitments
and action to maintain evolve and sustain the healing networks
Closing
ceremony
Additional
activities:
Brief
summaries of healing ways and action may be posted on butcher paper and
murals and this content used to generate handouts.
Handouts:
Simple
dot-point/diagram/picture handouts from material generated throughout the
group sharing and from prior Workshop series.
Providing
support
Perhaps
you may want to support this project and the related Micro-Action and be part
of an extra-ordinary healing Odyssey.
Other links:
Laceweb Home Page
Evolving a SE
Asia Pacific Self Help Trauma Support Intercultural Network - A Small Micro
Proposal
Self Help
Action Supporting Survivors of Torture and Trauma in Se Asia, Oceania And
Australasia - Small Generalisable Actions
Short version
of the above project
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